Archive for July, 2006

5 Kinda Creepy Street Signs I’ve Seen In England

1.  "Humped Zebra Crossing"
2.  "Look Right"
3.  "Faggotts Close"
4.  "Humps for 450 Yards"
5.  "COSTCO Entrance "

Posted by vanessa on July 28th, 2006 .
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Dildos For A Better Tomorrow

Hot Diggity! Sign me up for a silicone, solar-charged, fair-trade ramrod in a pleather harness with some homeopathic lube. Who says you can’t have wild monkey-sex and save the wild monkeys at the same time? Come on, grab your partner and save the earth! Who’s with me?

Erotic and Eco-Friendly
Sex-toy shopping for the environmentally concerned doesn’t have to crimp your play
Published 07.19.06

So you’ve stopped microwaving your food in plastic. You have a chlorine filter on your showerhead, you avoid sneakers made in sweatshops and you take cloth bags with you to the market for your organic produce.

But when it comes to the nightstand drawer, often all those noble and self-protective thoughts go out the window. There you’ve got petroleum-laden, chemical-leaking implements of pleasure made god-knows-where, piled on top of a mound of dead batteries and some distinctly leathery items. Well, the good news is, that drawer doesn’t have to be your one dirty little secret. At least not in such unfun ways.

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Posted by vanessa on July 26th, 2006 .
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Sugasm #39

This week’s best of the sex blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Want in Sugasm #40? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

HHNT!!!!!! (
I Feel Myself, I Really Do : ) (
Porn Week Vacation (

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Anticipation (
Being Submissive (
Late night deviant (
Mmm Tentacle-y (
My Orgasm and Sexual Desire Secrets (
RANT: On the Rag with The Goddesses (
Self image is a wonderful thing, most of the time (
Tag - Past Love - Story 2 - Self-discovery and Healing (
Those damn slutty bisexuals (

Sex News
Bush for “Products and Services,” Not Birth Control (
Gay Gamers are Coming Out of the Closet (
Next Door Nikki on Jerry Springer (
There’s Got To Be A Joke Here Somewhere (

BDSM and Fetish
Guessing Games (
How about a cookie (
Isabella’s Eyes - Part IV (
Spanking at t’mill (
A VERY long drive home (
Yes Master (

Static Electricity–and no, it wasn’t caused by the phone (
Unbeknownst To The Roommate (
You want some popcorn with that? (

Sex Work
Haze Goes to Prison (
Long nails dig into the submissive mind (
Tease and Denial with My sissy bitch (

Erotic Writing and Experiences
7/16 by Rex: Soap Suds (
The Bed, the Bath, and Beyond (
A Bit of Pink Alone Time (
Blush (
Can you hear that..? (
Cold Hands, Hot strokes (
Good Thing It Wasn’t Windy Today… (
His Kind of Woman (
Hot Mami is OPP (part one) (
I left my heart in San Francisco (
Just the, um, three of us? part one……. (
Nocturnal Confessions #1 (
Trees again (
Wet (

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Posted by vanessa on July 25th, 2006 .
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The Brazilian Experiment

I brought plenty of my Magic Shaving Powder to the UK to keep my punani smooth, but it’s been so bloody hot that I haven’t wanted to deal with it.  So, I thought I would try getting a wax job, which would allow me to forget all about it for the remainder of my stay.

I got a referral from the local salon for Danielle in Bushey (hilarious and unintended pun) who is the local waxer extraordinaire.  I decided to keep with my regular coif, (which is none at all, the whole enchilada, a "hollywood" or "brazilian.")  I had to let it grow out at least 1/4" inch, but went in this morning for my first-ever bikini wax.  I expected to be screaming and tearing her eyes out, but surprisingly, it just wasn’t that bad. 

The heat from the wax was actually more uncomfortable than the "strip-rip" and there were only a couple of areas where my eyes watered just a teeny bit.  Took about 20 minutes, including the post-waxing tweezing she did in the areas where the hair didn’t come out as well.  That was actually worse than the waxing, but it was because the hair just wasn’t long enough in spots.  Anyway, barring any unforseen aftereffects, I may keep it up.  The only drawback is having to grow it out to 1/4" each time.  But, I can say I popped my bikini wax cherry in the UK.

Posted by vanessa on July 17th, 2006 .
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My New Skill

My host in the UK asked whether I would be willing to cut his hair with his new electric clippers.  Having never done that, I admit I was both apprehensive and eager.  We both think I did a cracking job, and I now have a new skill for the resume. 

So, not only am I multi-orgasmic, I am a great cook and can give a decent haircut.  I am officially the perfect woman.

Posted by vanessa on July 17th, 2006 .
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Sugasm #38

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SugarJoy has a New Webmistress (
Blogathon 2006 (

Sex Work and Humor

A Cornucopia of Perversion (
How to Spot Breast Implants (
F’n Amazing Webcam Show (
All About My Summer Vacation (

Erotic Writing and Experiences

UFC - Ultimate F(*)#&@&$ Club (
7/10 by Rex: A Tale of Two Roxies (
Morning After (
Tired? (
Friday Night Teaser (
Facets of an Assignation (
First HNT Dream (
coming in her mouth and in the trees (
Comfortably Decadent - Part Three (
Doesn’t Anyone Here Want Their Ass Licked? (
“The Meeting” a work of fiction (
Shibari Thursday (
Stand and Deliver (
A Fantasy in White (
Featured Article - Exploring Alternative Relationships (part 1) (
Bust a (Porn) Move (
Staff Pick (
Flash of Clarity / Flash of Mia (
Reader Question - Blow Me… Please (


Neighbor Affair: What could be more patriotic? (
Masked Nude Beauty (
Danni makes a splash! Squirting video and more… (
WebMistress Feature Gallery: Flashing Utah (

BDSM and Fetish

Isabella’s Eyes - Part III (
Spankable Blog Award (
HNT 22 - 4th of July Editon (
Doctor Who: the (should have been a) Spanking Episode (
My Lil Barmaid Sissy Bitch (
Redemption (
Waiting for Punishment in a Fantasy Manor (
And Now for the Video! (

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Closet Slut (?) (
The Ugly Cry (
Black Dicks in White Chicks: pornographic fantasies of miscegenation, black power, and the colonization of interracial desire (

The sexy sunbathing photo of Tara Tainton comes directly from her very own blog.

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Posted by vanessa on July 15th, 2006 .
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Stranger In A Strange Land

England is beautiful - looks quite a bit like Seattle. I still haven’t decided whether I could live here, but I’ve started a list of pros and cons.

Pro: Just about everyone here has a gorgeous English accent, which keeps me perpetually moist.
Con: The humidity has been fairly steady at about 85%, which keeps me perpetually moist.

Pro: Healthcare is free to all UK residents.
Con: Paperback books cost about US $15 and gas is US $7.50-8.00/gallon.

Pro: Indian food is widely available and delicious.
Con: I found hamburgers in a tin. Hamburgers. In. A. Tin.

I still have four more weeks here, so I’m sure I’ll be adding to my list…

Posted by vanessa on July 13th, 2006 .
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Vanessa is a genus of butterflies. Common names are American Lady (Vanessa virginiensis), West Coast Lady (Vanessa annabella) and Painted Lady (Vanessa cardui).

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