Archive for November, 2006

Sugasm #55

This week’s best of the sex blogs from the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #56? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
To Tell or Not to Tell… (http://lipstickexplosion.com)
“Jane Falling claims it’s best not to tell, and she writes, ‘my identity as a prostitute is too serious a secret to trust with near-strangers.’”

Anti-Anti-Pornography, Part II (http://www.teen-porn-site.com/blog)
“One question I would like to ask them is - were there any rape or child abuse cases *before* the invention of pornography?”

To Shave or Not to Shave (http://www.model-chat.com)
“I stayed full bush for about my first two weeks as a live adult host.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Silence is better than bullshit (unless you’re a Gold-level member) (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Pillow Talk: Interview with Razor Ryan (http://adelehaze.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
50 Sexual Things About Me (http://dirtytalk.wordpress.com)
Fun With Futanari (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
I’m So Tired (http://hard-and-fast.blogspot.com)
Rediscovering the Secret to Great Sex (http://www.taratainton.com)

NSFW Pics (& videos)
Alison & Peachez (video) (http://hotboxbabe.thumblogger.com)
Chelsea (4) (video) (http://ipodteens.ilovejulienight.com)
Hotel Rendezvous (video) (http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)
Jennifer Kotwal (http://desibabes.blogspot.com)
Mistress Natali Demore (Awesome ass!) (video) (http://www.thebootcam.com)
Nora Marlo (http://eroticandy.blogspot.com)

Sex Work
A Soft Click (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)

Sex & Politics
RANT: Show Me The Pussy! (http://smutandsteff.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Buttered Up (http://thebutterflytemptress.com)
A Cure for Kleptomania? (http://thediaryofanenglishrose.blogspot.com)
Down the Coast, Part II (http://www.betweensheets.net)
Flying Buttons (http://bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com)
Frenetic (http://ambientstorm.blogspot.com)
A holiday to remember. (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)
A Little Bit of Madness (http://femmefataleteen.blogspot.com)
Mr Henry Recommends… (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
Outdoor Sex (http://mandyseroticlife.blogspot.com)
Recipe for Suck Sex (http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)
Saturday Night Fun a la The Wife (http://fourstate.blogspot.com)
Sharing her… (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
Starfucker: My First Time Watching Sex (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)

Sexy Humor
5 Reasons Why Porn Made Sex Better (http://ylovesporn.com)

BDSM and Fetish
Correction (http://secretlifeofaman.blogspot.com)
Fiction or Not, You Tell Me? (http://psoprincess.blogspot.com)
He’s Got the Look (http://www.spankingwriters.com)
HNT: Have a nice day! (http://www.the-iron-gate.com/blog)
A Nawty Story: Kitten Comes Clean (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
Retribution (http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)
Sadism and domestic violence (http://www.bondage-guide.net)

Sex Advice, News, Reviews & Interviews
Free Shipping for your Holiday Shopping! (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com)
An Herbivores Guide to Safe Sex (http://blog.babeland.com)
Pillow Talk: Interview with Razor Ryan (http://adelehaze.com)
Revolutionary Cybersex (http://www.1trackmind.com/blog)
Threesome Advice (part 1) (video) (http://www.seskuality.com)

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Posted by vanessa on November 24th, 2006 .
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Happy Thanksgiving

I wanted to wish all my lovely friends and fans in the U.S. a happy Thanksgiving. Or perhaps a happy day-before-xmas-shopping-hell!! Since I’m in the U.K. right now, where nobody is thankful for anything, I think I’ll celebrate with a pedicure and brazilian wax, then maybe I’ll pop into Borders for a browse and cup of Starbucks signature hot chocolate. I would love to know if any of you had a Thanksgiving end up like this…

For the rest of you, here’s a little vintage lovely to warm up your holiday.

Thanksgiving beauty

Posted by vanessa on November 23rd, 2006 .
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Sugasm #54

This week’s best of the sex blogs from the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #55? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
My Response to The Government’s Pushing of Celibacy on Adults! (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
“We should teach that SEX IS ABOUT PLEASURE.”

Flying in the Face of Censorship (http://www.suzanneportnoy.com)
“But these days, the UK is Europe’s frisky frontier, and the hotties are flying in from all over.”

Life as an Adult Cam Worker (http://www.model-chat.com)
“Experiment with days and times to find out what’s the best time for you to be on live.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Our fearless leader promises he will leave the marathon orgy and be back to blogging soon. In the meantime enjoy one from the vault.
3 Porn Based Urban Legends (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Home Run (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
An Audience with… David Pierson Part 1 (http://leiaannwoods.blogspot.com)
Everything To Do With Sex (video) (http://www.seskuality.com)
The Harlot and the Painter (http://adelehaze.com)
Sexy Interview - Rubberella (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
Silicone Beaded Matador Cock Ring Review (http://stilettodiaries.blogspot.com)
Venus Berlin Show Report - Fucking Machines (http://sextoysinsider.com)
Welcome to “Sex Blogger Community” (http://sexblogwelcome.blogspot.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
The Cabin, Part II (http://www.betweensheets.net)
Early Masturbation Experiences (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)
Fun in the Bahamas (http://wantonyou.blogspot.com)
Hopeless, Irresistible Lust (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
I Haven’t Come in Days (http://sexcakes.blogspot.com)
Lipstick On Your… What? (http://hard-and-fast.blogspot.com)
Nikki (http://baring.blogspot.com)
Piano Girl I (http://aliceinawonderbra.blogspot.com)
Restless (http://nocloudnine.blogspot.com)
Story 2 - Stressed (http://dareuu.blogspot.com)
Too Sick to Fuck (http://sabrinainstockings.com)
Toy Tuesday: Plug (http://mypinktaco.blogspot.com)

Sex & Politics
US Government Preaches Abstinence to Adults (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com)

BDSM and Fetish
Bad Kitty (http://wetbeyondbelief.blogspot.com)
Bitch in Heat (http://everythingoze.blogspot.com)
I Like Big Butts (And Petite Posteriors) (http://pandorablake.blogspot.com)
Late-Breaking Newsflash: Katie Spades Given a Hand-spanking For Cheek (http://spankingkatiespades.blogspot.com)
A Nawty Story: Kitten Fibbed (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
Slave sex, a lesson learned too well (http://bratmaster.co.uk)
Thou Shalt Not Touch Thy Students (http://spankingwriters.com/blog)

NSFW Pics (& video)
Half-Nekkid Posterized! (http://beyondyouandme.blogspot.com)
Happy HNT - Stadium Flash (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
Featured DDGirls Covergirl Sasha Grey (http://www.ddgirlsblog.com)
Karina (http://povfuck.ilovejulienight.com)
Mea-Culpa Erotic Nudes (http://eroticandy.blogspot.com)
Mistress Xena in Purple Boots (video) (http://www.thebootcam.com)
Rub it the Right Way (video) (http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)
Vote (http://melanaise.blogspot.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Bloggin’ Naked on a Pink Slip. (http://texasspitfire.blogspot.com)
Do I Stay or Do I Go? (http://edenfantasys.livejournal.com)
The Joy Of Sharing? (http://secretlifeofaman.blogspot.com)
Water Works (http://femmefataleteen.blogspot.com)
Wired (http://gentlygently.blogspot.com)

Sex Humor
Cock Rock Travelogue (http://secretbrain.blogspot.com)
Mismatched Whores: Time, Time, Time (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)

Sex History
The Conception of Trojan Condoms (http://www.taratainton.com)
Retro Raw: The Best of Amber Lynn (http://retrosexblog.com)

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Posted by vanessa on November 19th, 2006 .
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Back Trouble = Sex Trouble

ouch!So, where the hell have I been? My sweetie decided to get himself a herniated disc and the resulting sciatica. Net result is lots of caregiving, little blogging, and even less sex.

And so it goes…enjoy the Sugasms while we both recover.

P.S. I need an Eroscillator, STAT!!

Posted by vanessa on November 15th, 2006 .
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Sugasm #53

The best of the sex blogs this week by the bloggers who blog them. Spotlighting the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #54? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
PUMPkin Carving - Not Just For Kids! (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
Dildo Dinner (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)
A Role Play Confession for Halloween… (http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Our fearless leader is up to his armpits looking at porn. Until he returns I present some retro Sugar.
How to Date a Porn Star in Eleven Easy Steps (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
A little story about something called 2257 (http://principalquattrano.com/blog)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Boobs that Get Plastic Tits (http://www.model-chat.com)
My Erotic Literary Heroines…… (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
“Taken” (http://lustylady.blogspot.com)
Tara’s Private Diary: When Commitment Creeps In (http://www.TaraTainton.com)

BDSM and Fetish
A Bad Girl’s Punishment (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
Dreaming of Detention (http://adelehaze.com)
Erotica (http://ropewhore.blogspot.com)
‘I Write This Sitting At a School Desk’ (http://www.spankingwriters.com/blog)
In Charge… (http://www.makemycopcome.blogspot.com)
A Nawty Story: Kitten’s Bad Dream (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
Spanking in the Chamber of Horrors (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
Twins (http://engrailed.com)
Who’s a Naughty Girl Then? (http://thediaryofanenglishrose.blogspot.com)

Sex & Politics
Anti-Anti-Pornography, Part I: Awakening (http://www.teen-porn-site.com/blog)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Fantasy Pirates (http://leiaannwoods.blogspot.com)
Nursed Back to Health (http://acestrokes.blogspot.com)
Permission (http://nocloudnine.blogspot.com)
Sex With An Audience (http://mandyseroticlife.blogspot.com)
Tempered Envy (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
A Whore’s Reward (http://thebutterflytemptress.com)
Without you (http://pick-up-pieces.blogspot.com)

NSFW Pics (& a video)
Hannah Hilton (http://hotboxbabe.thumblogger.com)
More Nora Marlo (http://eroticandy.blogspot.com)
Sluts (http://www.internetisforporn.com)
Susana Spears on bed (http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)
Zombie Seska (http://www.seska4lovers.com)

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
The Everything To Do With Sex Show (http://lovinblg.blogspot.com)
Half-Nekkid and Going Down (http://www.TarasNaughtyShop.com)
Sybian Server Attachment (http://gamerpr0n.com)
Welcome to “Make My Cop Come” by Anne Elizabeth (http://sexblogwelcome.blogspot.com)

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Posted by vanessa on November 11th, 2006 .
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About Vanessa...

Vanessa is a genus of butterflies. Common names are American Lady (Vanessa virginiensis), West Coast Lady (Vanessa annabella) and Painted Lady (Vanessa cardui).

I'm Vanessa. I'm always a Lady. Talk to me....

vanessa@talktovanessa.com

...and then YOU said...

  • Curvaceous Dee: Being happy is a hell of a lot more important than writing to keep us happy. I am so pleased for you!...
  • Pog: Hey Vanessa, Your husband is a very lucky man indeed. Take care, Pog.
  • havingmycake: Very worrying time for you both. Hope there is a good outcome.
  • Curvaceous Dee: *applauds* Oh, I am so pleased! It’s such a rare and special thing, and you well deserve it....
  • lapis ruber: That sounds a really nasty event. Glad you weren’t more seriously injured. Happy belated HNT.