Archive for December, 2006

Happy New Year

bpsanta I know I haven’t been writing much but with the house move things have been a bit hectic. Add to that a dollop of writer’s block and it makes for one very sorry-ass blogger.

I do have several articles on the back burner so stay tuned…I’m not going away, just doing a little hibernation during the cold snap.

For all my loyal readers and listeners, I wish you all the best for 2007.

Kiss Kiss!!

Posted by vanessa on December 31st, 2006 .
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Sugasm #60

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #61? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
A night at the opera (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“There were limits to what could be done where there was any discernible level of visibility. But I was familiar with these limits and had enjoyed them before.”

In Praise of Older Men (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
“I would expect her to have at least one lad on the side, and perhaps more.”

A Nawty Story: Cookies and Cream (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
“I pull my hand away from her pussy and sniff her fragrances on my fingers.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Raunchy Wrapping Paper (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Christmas for the lonely wanker (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)

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Erotic Writing and Experiences
The Desk (http://nocloudnine.blogspot.com)
Girl talk, Part II (http://www.betweensheets.net)
Ho (http://ellesnovellas.blogspot.com)
I Like it Wet (http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)
Just throw it in (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
My First Gang Bang! (http://mandyseroticlife.blogspot.com)
The Secret Lover (http://ellabeecoquette.blogspot.com)
Threesome (http://deliciously-naughty.typepad.com)

BDSM and Fetish
First steps in sensory deprivation (http://www.bondage-guide.net)
Leaving your mark (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
The Package (http://bratmaster.co.uk)
S Is For Surrender (http://redvelvetropeburn.com)
Ten with the Cane (http://kinkyfarmwife.blogspot.com)

Sex and Politics
Porn and Religion (http://www.teen-porn-site.com/blog)

Sex Work
So You Love Sex… (http://www.model-chat.com)

NSFW Pics (& videos)
Aria Giovanni is super hot! (http://eroticandy.blogspot.com)
A Gallery of Art-Tits (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
Lara of “1000 Words” in the kitchen (http://kitchen-girls.blogspot.com)

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Apple gets the pip with iBuzz (http://sextoysinsider.com)
Christmas Comes Early: the Hottest Sex Toy of 2006 (http://www.taratainton.com)
A few of our favourite things. (http://www.spankingwriters.com/blog)
iBuzz Two Review (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)
Pillow Talk: Interview with Erica Scott (Shadow Lane and Spanking Epics) (http://adelehaze.com)
The Sybian is an Orgasm Factory! (http://sexdriver.blogspot.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Christmas for the lonely wanker (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)
It’s All Hydraulics, Really (http://exploreros.blogspot.com)
Tag, Tag, Tag, and Tag…. (http://stealthbombshell.blogspot.com)

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Posted by vanessa on December 27th, 2006 .
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Sugasm #59

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #60? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
By Invitation Only (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
“I was being watched by a room full of people, but all I could think about was his thick cock, pounding me, his balls slapping against my ass.”

Love that aural sex (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“…The lazy way your honeyed tones flow out, saying my name, or merely whispering “Is that good, baby? You like that?” as you slide a finger in and out of me, deliberately and slowly.”

What BDSM Can Tell Us All About Sex (part 1) (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
“That’s another form of power exchange: if I ‘let’ you have sex with someone else, it’s very different than if you sneak off and fuck that person without having permission.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Everyone Diggs Porn (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Sandra Claus (http://secretbrain.blogspot.com)

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
6 Weird Things About Me Sexually…I’ve Been Tagged! (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
“F” is for fabulous… (http://blackbookgirls.com)
My Wacky Erotic Mind (http://www.seska4lovers.com)
Sex Toys - Your Next Erotic Frontier (http://sexdriver.blogspot.com)

NSFW Pics (& videos)
Cleanliness is Next to Horniness (http://kitchen-girls.blogspot.com)
Keeley Hazell Calendar 2007 (http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)
Mini-Documentary of me… (video)(http://duckydoo.livejournal.com)
Super hot nude girl from Ron Harris (http://eroticandy.blogspot.com)
Threesome Advice (part 3) (http://www.seskuality.com)

Sex Work
Amateur Porn “Penetration” - Part VI (http://blog.homegrownvideo.com)
Another One About Sex Work (http://sabrinainstockings.com)
Loud Sex (http://www.model-chat.com)
A Quickie (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)

Sexy Humor
10 Unintentionally Naughty and Terrible Domain Names (http://www.teen-porn-site.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Anonymous (http://lafillemariee.blogspot.com)
He Took off My Clothes (http://www.suzanneportnoy.com)
I wanted to lick her out so bad (http://thediaryofanenglishrose.blogspot.com)
My Addiction (http://randisexadpoetry.blogspot.com)
Office Heat - Part 1 (http://dirtytalk.wordpress.com)
Red Light Special (http://ellabeecoquette.blogspot.com)
Snowday Sex (http://mandyseroticlife.blogspot.com)
The Sportscar, Part 2 (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
Such a Nice Girl (http://onlyamirage.blogspot.com)

Sex and Politics
Masturbation: How to Conquer the Corrupting Habit (http://www.taratainton.com)
Teacher fired for porn past (http://deliciously-naughty.typepad.com)

BDSM and Fetish
A Nawty Story: Jenny’s New Slave (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
Dishonourable Discharge (http://assistantmistress.blogspot.com)
Leaving on a Jet Plane (http://naughtythoughtsinmymind.blogspot.com)
Morning masturbation (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
Naval floggings: the girls take their turn (http://www.spankingwriters.com/blog)
Playing at the W, Part III (http://www.betweensheets.net)
Split Penis, Anyone? (Editor’s note: Don’t say we didn’t warn you.) (http://pornster.blogspot.com)

Sex News & Reviews
Blue King Pleasure Scepter Glass Dildo Review (http://stilettodiaries.blogspot.com)
Shay’s Sexmas Gift Guide 2 (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)

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Posted by vanessa on December 19th, 2006 .
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Sugasm #58

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #59? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
6 weird things about me (http://hard-and-fast.blogspot.com)
“I’ve masturbated to completion more than 13,000 times.”

Polygamy, chastity, and sexual pragmatics (http://www.realadultsex.com)
“Lest you think the “sister-wives” could always take matters into their own or each other’s hands…”

What a woman wants (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“Tell me about the couple who would have you fuck the wife, and the husband watch.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
My Bare Lady (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Don’t you dare cum yet (http://bratmaster.co.uk)

Sponsored Link
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Sex News & Reviews
Call for Xmas Cocks and Cunts! ( http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
Discovering New Desires with Naughty Game Play (http://www.taratainton.com )

BDSM and Fetish
A Nawty Story: Jenny Grills Diane (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
Fiction: Timothy and the Pony Girls of the Night ( http://erotiterrorist.blogspot.com )
Happy HNT - Sexy candy cane panties ( http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com )
My imminent chastisement ( http://battletofindmyself.blogspot.com )
The Truth - Confessions of a sissy cock sucker ( http://www.caramelvixen.com/vixen-blog)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Blowjob Monday ( http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
Mile High Club ( http://wanklog.blogspot.com)
No Words ( http://bigboysa.blogspot.com)
Remembering summer, remembering lust (http://justsexdrugsandrocknroll.blogspot.com)
Sassy Claus (http://nocloudnine.blogspot.com)
Under the Table (http://drtycplinva.blogspot.com)
What a woman wants (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)

NSFW Pics (& videos)
Alison Angel - Baywatch ( http://hotboxbabe.thumblogger.com)
Crystal Klein Nude ( http://eroticandy.blogspot.com/)
Fully Nekkid In The Shower HNT (http://stilettodiaries.blogspot.com)
Katie’s sexy striptease ( http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)
Tiffaney 2 ( http://facialsluts.ilovejulienight.com)

Sex & Politics
Anti-Anti-Pornography, Part IV: “Da Vinci Code” is Not Pornography ( http://www.teen-porn-site.com/blog)
The Return of Segregation and Silicone (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com )

Sexy Humor
Ask Art: The Sexual Misadvice Column ( http://secretbrain.blogspot.com )

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Bad Santas! ( http://www.1trackmind.com)
Fellatio, Round 4 ( http://www.betweensheets.net)
Sex & Aging: Part 3 of 3 Parts (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)

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Posted by vanessa on December 18th, 2006 .
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Sugasm #57

This week’s best of the sex blogs from the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #58? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
The Other Side of Hotwifery (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“Since he had been so cavalier about it prior to my ever actually going through with such an event, I had given almost no thought to how it might affect him.”

The Blender (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)
“You want to pick me? Did I win a contest?”

Meeting in a Car - part one (http://emergingontheotherside.blogspot.com)
“His tongue teased hers, and her lips teased his in retaliation”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Welcome to Googlestan! Google Purges Adult Content from Search Results (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Desire so overwhelming I could do anything (http://sugarbutch.blogspot.com)

Sponsored Link

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
A Way With Words: Aural Fixation (http://exploreros.blogspot.com)
Breaking the golden rule, Part I (http://www.betweensheets.net)
Confronting Things Head-On: How We Got Here (Part 1 of 2) (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
Sex Addict?! (http://www.model-chat.com)
Sex and the Movies (http://hard-and-fast.blogspot.com)
“Tossing the Salad” (http://sexeteria.net)

Sex & Politics
Anti-Anti-Pornography, Part III: A Concept (http://www.teen-porn-site.com/blog)

NSFW Pics (& videos)
First alone thanksgiving (http://stealthbombshell.blogspot.com)
Get a grip! (http://kitchen-girls.blogspot.com)
Half-Nekkid Sex Blogging (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com)
Happy HNT - Sexy Holiday Stockings (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
“I Like Men, Women, Angels…” (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
MILF sucks on a cock (4) (video) (http://deepthroat.ilovejulienight.com)

BDSM and Fetish
A Nawty Story: Kitten’s Reward and Punishment (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
On Loan, Finale (http://engrailed.com)

Sex Work
What Happened to Good Old Fashioned BDSM? (http://lipstickexplosion.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
A Break From The Dance (http://mandyseroticlife.blogspot.com)
Crush - Part II (http://lafillemariee.blogspot.com)
Eyes (http://designingintimacy.blogspot.com)
Guy #2: November 24, 2006 - The Swing (http://mysexualmisadventures.blogspot.com)
He Says (http://sexcakes.blogspot.com)
I am yours (http://wetbeyondbelief.blogspot.com)
Late Night Meeting (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
Lori – Part II (http://masterenigma.blogspot.com)
My girlfriend the stripper, part 1 (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
Phoenix Has a Long Night at The Office (http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)
The School Camp (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)
Why I Love My Job… (http://stilettodiaries.blogspot.com)

Sex News & Reviews
Girls with Guns: There’s Nothing Sexier (http://www.taratainton.com)
Most Erotic Sex Movie Scene (http://ncnewcpl4u.blogspot.com)
Ray Spade Retro Collection (http://retrosexblog.com)
Welcome to “Sir Dirty Joke” by Sir Dirty Joke (http://sexblogwelcome.blogspot.com)
Why You Shouldn’t Spend Money On SkinVideo (http://ylovesporn.com)

Sexy Humor
What did Simon Cowell do before he was famous? (http://sextoysinsider.com)

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Posted by vanessa on December 18th, 2006 .
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Sugasm #56

This week’s best of the sex blogs from the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #57? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Same Time Next Year (http://nocloudnine.blogspot.com)
“She nodded again, grabbing the doorframe as she pushed against the finger.”

Fuck me- it’s friday. (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
“I won’t pretend to be coy- because I know what I want.”

Sexual Things You Don’t Know About Me (http://www.taratainton.com)
“My own erotic inner self has been piqued these last few days by a wonderful fantasy; maybe I can help pique yours by sharing.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Happy Thanksgiving (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Fast and Furious (http://edinerotica.blogspot.com)

Sponsored Link
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Toy for couples
(http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/ibuzztwo/) “Next-gen vibrator gives everything you and your partner need to enjoy music and music-activated vibrations at the same time. Even works with a Zune ;-)

Sex News & Reviews
Lesbian Sadomasochistic Schoolgirls for PlayStation 2 (http://adelehaze.com)
Q: Can non nude porn be hot? (http://ylovesporn.com)
Remote Control Wireless Vibrating Egg Review (http://stilettodiaries.blogspot.com)

BDSM and Fetish
Happy HNT - Classroom paddling (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
A Nawty Story: Kitten’s After School Special (http://anawtymouz.blogspot.com)
And One for Luck (http://www.spankingwriters.com/blog)
Working late, Part I (http://www.betweensheets.net)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
100 Things I Want To Do Before I Die (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
clIMax for breakfast (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
Home cooking, part 3 (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
Hotel (http://slutissimo2.wordpress.com)
The Other Side of Jen (http://drtycplinva.blogspot.com)
Throbbing Cunt… OH I Need An Orgasm! (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
What I did to Devil in a Blue Dress (http://dirtytalk.wordpress.com)

Sex History
Instruction And Advice For The Young Bride (http://bratmaster.co.uk)

Sexy Humor
Chicken Man (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)
Those sexy italians (http://hard-and-fast.blogspot.com)

NSFW Pics (& videos)
Alison Angel - Christmas (video) (http://hotboxbabe.thumblogger.com)
Black and White Erotic Photos by JS Hicks (http://www.ddgirlsblog.com)
Half-Nekkid and Begging to Be Asked (http://www.TarasNaughtyShop.com)
Happy Thanksgiving! (http://kitchen-girls.blogspot.com)
Shay Laren Masturbates (video) (http://myhotbox.blogspot.com)

Sex Work
PSO’s Thanksgiving (http://sabrinainstockings.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Craigslist Personals (II) (http://pornster.blogspot.com)
Soft Porn is Greedy (http://www.teen-porn-site.com/blog)

Sex & Politics
A National Addiction to Porn? (http://fullfrontalpolitics.com)
Sex Positive Feminism: A Statement of Beliefs (http://sexualevolution.blogspot.com)

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Posted by vanessa on December 5th, 2006 .
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About Vanessa...

Vanessa is a genus of butterflies. Common names are American Lady (Vanessa virginiensis), West Coast Lady (Vanessa annabella) and Painted Lady (Vanessa cardui).

I'm Vanessa. I'm always a Lady. Talk to me....

vanessa@talktovanessa.com

...and then YOU said...

  • Curvaceous Dee: Being happy is a hell of a lot more important than writing to keep us happy. I am so pleased for you!...
  • Pog: Hey Vanessa, Your husband is a very lucky man indeed. Take care, Pog.
  • havingmycake: Very worrying time for you both. Hope there is a good outcome.
  • Curvaceous Dee: *applauds* Oh, I am so pleased! It’s such a rare and special thing, and you well deserve it....
  • lapis ruber: That sounds a really nasty event. Glad you weren’t more seriously injured. Happy belated HNT.