Archive for May, 2007

Sugasm #81

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #82? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Do / Do Not (lafillemariee.blogspot.com…)
“Do – stop in the hallway to kiss and fondle me before even getting to the room.”

The Red Cross of Fucking (perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)
“They can pay her a “finder’s fee,” and everybody will be happier.”

Review: The Amputee’s Guide to Sex (www.radicalvixen.com…)
“When he first mentioned it he turned his disability into a fetish.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Meet Lin Chong, Dong Assistant (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice
Mothers day 3 (joeheather.blogspot.com…)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Agly (theadulteress.livejournal.com…)
All Day Love (talktovanessa.com…)
Do You Know? (fexual-strustration.blogspot.com…)
Heartbeats and Breaths (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com…)
Hidden Desire - Submission #1 (confessionjournal.blogspot.com…)
Horny Sales Girl Giving Pleasure (humandigest.blogspot.com…)
Joshua Three - Part Three (junohenry.wordpress.com…)
Lay With You (www.smuttydirt.com…)
One More Night pt. 3 (kislee.naughtyblog.net…)
Overtime With The Boss (eroticjournals.blogspot.com…)
The Pussy Slayer (confessions112.blogspot.com…)
Room Service (gentlygently.blogspot.com…)
Watch Me Squirm (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
Welcome home honey (orangeuglad.blogspot.com…)

Sex News & Reviews
Ow! You’re On My Hair! (aslipofagirl.blogspot.com…)
Since when is stripping news? (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Aria Giovanni Nude (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Audio: Pussy Lickin’ Good (www.taratainton.com…)
Girlfriend of “Sexual Expression” in the Kitchen (kitchen-girls.blogspot.com…)
Half-Nekkid and Guilt-Free Hiney (www.tarasnaughtyshop.com…)
Happy HNT - Hand spanking video (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
Irina & Alena (viviane212.blogspot.com…)
Natali Demore and Lady Dalbin (video) (thebootcam.com…)
Presenting Avril (onlymet.blogspot.com…)
Supermodels from Peru (myhotbox.blogspot.com…)
Titty Tuesday (imelda-imelda.blogspot.com…)
Video #1/”Sexual Nostalgia” (sexualnostalgia.blogspot.com…)

Sex Work
A Day In The Life Of A Professional Fetish Blogger (www.quipsandchains.com…)
Madeleines (thismuse.blogspot.com…)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Alpha & Beta (smart-girls.blogspot.com…)
Defining Erotic (www.thenaughtychick.com…)
Friday (sexcakes.blogspot.com…)
I loved this then and still love it now… (darkdaughta.blogspot.com…)
The Problem with Porn Part II: Manifestations Online (un-cool.blogspot.com…)
The Sex Kitten History; The Sex Kitten Future (www.sex-kitten.net…)
Spanked by Robin Byrd, or not that innocent (lustylady.blogspot.com…)
A Strange New World of Emotion (practicalpolyamory.blogspot.com…)

Sex Humor
Man Gets Out Of Traffic Ticket, Potential Threesome Cited (funnyextreme.com…)

BDSM & Fetish
Art, human condition and spanking (www.spankingwriters.com…)
Darkness (transformher.blogspot.com…)
I’m Easy (Sort of) - Reflections on Cuckolding (mrsemmakelly.blogspot.com…)
Star Trek and BDSM (twentyfoursevends.blogspot.com…)
Wednesday Session (www.sub-burbs.com…)
Wolves vs. vampires (lastbreath.wordpress.com…)

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Posted by vanessa on May 29th, 2007 .
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This Week’s Slice Of Vintage Cheesecake

I plan to keep ‘em coming, since they seem to be popular. Enjoy!

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Posted by vanessa on May 26th, 2007 .
Filed under: Pics and Stuff, Vintage Pics | 3 Comments »

Half-Nekkid Thursday: JBF Hair

Two pics today - it’s fairly easy to tell what I’ve what I’ve Just Been

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And how.

Go see Os for more Half-Nekkid fun.

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Posted by vanessa on May 24th, 2007 .
Filed under: Pics and Stuff, Pics of Me | 11 Comments »

Sex Blogs Just Don’t Feel The Love

I’m not a high-maintenance woman.

dejectedI don’t ask for much.

All I want is a teeny, tiny, second sidebar.

arrow Right There.

The template designer can’t help me, even for money. He’s probably still digging himself out from this.

Another webgeek who shall remain nameless won’t help me create my own template or even modify one he’s created already. Even though he says he’s available for hire.

I think he’s afraid to take money from a woman who actually enjoys sex.

Or maybe he’s afraid to speak to a woman he didn’t meet in Second Life.

I’m not feeling very loved.

Posted by vanessa on May 23rd, 2007 .
Filed under: Stuff On My Mind | 4 Comments »

Sugasm #80

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #81? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.


This Week’s Picks

A Blue Hot Horny House Call (dirtydetails.blogspot.com…)
Part Three: Sorbet at Night ( smart-girls.blogspot.com…)
Tighter: the hotel (erotischism.blogspot.com…)


Mr. Sugasm Himself

Photo Manipulation (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice

Office Masturbation - part one (eroticawriter.blogspot.com…)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
I watched some gals in kalamazoo ( hard-and-fast.blogspot.com…)
Porn and Erotica and Threesomes (mercedessexadventures.blogspot.com…)
Taste yourself: another irritating tool of misogyny (in which I do get explicit) ( un-cool.blogspot.com…)
When Is Sex “Genuine”? ( perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)

Sex & Politics
Media Exploitation of a Sex Worker Past (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)

Sex Work
Sex and Disability Part II (englishcourtesan.blogspot.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Audio: Rubbin’ My Duckie (www.taratainton.com…)
The Crotchless Bodysuit: An Introduction (marriedexploits.blogspot.com… )
Half-Nekkid by Request ( sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com…)
HNT - It’s A Wrap (talktovanessa.com…)
I Feel Myself (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Sara X (Gothic Sluts) (viviane212.blogspot.com…)
Warmer Days (dirtyandthirty.blogspot.com…)

BDSM & Fetish
Blind Faith (www.betweensheets.net…)
Happy HNT - Shadow paddling (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
Still sex-starved…relatively speaking (twentyfoursevends.blogspot.com… )
A Submissive Girl’s Learning Curve ( shesinheat.blogspot.com…)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
After Concert (davidsconfessions.blogspot.com…)
At the Gym (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
Glistening…. (clearslate2007.wordpress.com… )
Half-Nekkid Sex Blogging Stud (www.tarasnaughtyshop.com…)
Hedonism on Paradise - Part Five (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com… )
Hospital Freaks ( confessions112.blogspot.com…)
It can be anyone! ( lastbreath.wordpress.com…)
On My Back (thenakedrhetoricaltruth.blogspot.com…)
Oral Sex (imelda-imelda.blogspot.com… )

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Posted by vanessa on May 22nd, 2007 .
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All Day Love

goodmorning We made love all day yesterday.

My first waking moments; your gentle fingers stroking my shoulders, my cheeks, down my back, the curves of my hips, the swell of my ass. Your warm, moist breath on my neck.

Good Morning.

The day’s routine was punctuated with passing strokes, stolen snuggles, tender kisses. A grazed breast, lightly, surreptitiously, in the market. Even mundane chores were electric with promise. You grew firm just by gazing in my eyes. Not yet.

I couldn’t wait much past lunch. I called to you. Yearning. You came to me. Eager.

Deft fingers brought me to my first peak. You didn’t realize then what a feat that was - many have tried, few have succeeded. Kudos. And, thank you.

togetherWe merged, finally. Embracing tightly, as though it would be our last. Limbs intertwined. Undulating, together, on a sea of tangled sheets. Crescendo.

As always, you cleansed me after. Diligently. Reverently. Nobody else has ever done that. Too sexy for words.

Dinner and a Rom-Com in each other’s arms on the sofa. Giggles. Tears. Sweet whispers. Then to bed.

Holding, caressing. Soft kisses. Tender words. Supposed to be getting sleepy. Not quite.

Once more. You were harder, bigger; impressive, considering the intensity of our earlier exchange. I had more to release as well. Not often the case, that many in one day. No less intense the second time. Bliss.

cuddlesMy last waking moments; your gentle fingers stroking my shoulders, my cheeks, down my back, the curves of my hips, the swell of my ass. Your warm, moist breath on my neck.

Good night.

Posted by vanessa on May 20th, 2007 .
Filed under: Sexy Stuff, Stuff I Wrote | 6 Comments »

Missing Seattle - Mostly

Some days are harder than others to be away from home with no end in sight. At least I’m in a warm house in England and not in a tent in the desert with sand in my crack dodging IED’s.

Things I Miss About Seattle: (in no particular order)

  1. Nordstrom
  2. Mexican Food - there are a few Mexican restaurants in the UK, but they don’t serve any actual Mexican food. Compared to San Diego, Mexican food in Seattle sucks a big fat one. But, compared to England, Sea-Mex is one step away from freakin’ Ixtapa.
  3. My Louis Vuitton Epi Noe - what idiot leaves that in storage?
  4. 24/7 shopping (being able to get what I want, when I want it, especially on Sundays.)
  5. Window Screens
  6. Monique - brazilian waxtrix extraordinaire
  7. The Mariners from prior to and including the 2001 season
  8. Smoke-Free Everything
  9. Tumble Dryers
  10. My King Size Select Comfort Sleep Number Bed (Oy!)
  11. Bar-B-Q - anyone coming to London who would like to stop at Dixie’s on the way to the airport will be richly rewarded - and yes, I need to meet “The Man.” But I’d settle for a bottle of Tony Roma’s Carolina Honey sauce.
  12. Customer Service - a concept not yet adopted inside the United Kingdom
  13. Anything in a American Handy Economy Size
  14. Public Trash Receptacles
  15. Driving - anywhere. Don’t say the word “roundabout” in my presence or I may hurt you. “Hey look kids, there’s Big Ben, and there’s Parliament. (repeat)”

Things I Don’t Miss About Seattle:

  1. Rain - how can I miss it? I’m in freakin’ London
  2. Talk Radio
  3. Seafair - never did feel the love for hydro races
  4. The Convergence Zone
  5. Ferry Queues On A Holiday Weekend
  6. Value Village
  7. Freeway Off-Ramp Panhandlers
  8. Experience Music Project - Exterior - bite me, Gehry, you sadistic asshole.
  9. Dick’s - I know it’s heresy, but they just do NOT do it for me - take me to Red Mill or Fatburger
  10. Blake Lewis
  11. Any discussion about the Viaduct, Monorail, Light Rail, or the future of Boeing Field
  12. The Mariners from 2002 to present
  13. “..So Don’t Be Laaaate, Do The Puyallup”
  14. Tim Eyman
  15. Driving - during rush hour; while it’s raining; on 1/2 inch of snow; or behind anyone from B.C.

I know, I’ll be home soon enough. I’m just having a Bar-B-Q-less, Customer-Service-Impaired, Desperately-Seeking-Brazilian-Wax kind of day. :cry:

Posted by vanessa on May 19th, 2007 .
Filed under: Random stuff, Lists of Stuff | 3 Comments »

About Vanessa...

Vanessa is a genus of butterflies. Common names are American Lady (Vanessa virginiensis), West Coast Lady (Vanessa annabella) and Painted Lady (Vanessa cardui).

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