HNT - It’s A Wrap

This is from the same batch as my last HNT submission, but I found this filter that gives a really intriguing BDSM shrink-wrap-torture effect. How cool is Photoshop?

its a wrap!

Oh, and if any of you out there really want to spoil me, I’m dying for a legal copy of CS3 Master Collection. Maybe I can make it worth your while…I’m just sayin.’ :razz:

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Posted by vanessa on May 10th, 2007 .
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I Can’t Wait To See THAT Boilerplate…

What if a Dominant could be held criminally liable for being…well…a Dom? What if he/she is a sadistic, egomaniacal asshole? Does it make a difference? When consentual sexual behavior involves physical and psychological abuse, torture, and even agreed-upon non-consentual sex (rape fantasies, anyone?), the legal boundaries can get pretty murky. Tristan Taormino comments on an unusual federal case for the Village Voice:

Whip Appealed

A BDSM court case puts master/slave relationships on trial

by Tristan Taormino March 19th, 2007 11:18 AM

…”Much of Jodi’s testimony was about being subjected to pain, punishment, and humiliation. Most people don’t want to be controlled, used, hurt, tortured, or degraded, so it’s hard for them to comprehend that some people want to experience sensations and emotions that are generally considered negative or painful…”

“…Because these are federal charges, Marcus faces life in prison, a fact that has sent a chill down the spines of some BDSM community members.” Read the rest.

Will a Sub need to draw up legal documents outlining the terms of his/her sexual consent? Should a Dom require a signed release prior to using any restraints or torture devices? This is a very slippery slope. I obviously don’t know the details of the relationship between Marcus and Jodi, but it does make me wonder where we go from here.

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Posted by vanessa on March 19th, 2007 .
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Of Floggers and Fire Escapes

Mistress and Slave So, I’m watching a fetish show on TV last night. Turns out there is a Bed & Breakfast near London-Stansted airport with a fetish theme. (£170 per night, phone 07966 490748 and ask for Diane.)

Anyhooo…one of the couples was a dreadlocked dominatrix and her leash-bound, leather-hooded slave, and they were staying in the special suite outfitted with lots of BDSM equipment. Mistress had a lovely satin-covered canopy bed replete with plenty of hooks, loops, chains and other accoutrements, and slave had a cage to sleep in.

The cage was long enough for slave to stretch out, and about 4 feet high and 4 feet wide. Slave put his arms back through the bars, and Mistress placed his handcuffs on outside the bars so that slave couldn’t move around inside the cage.

I turned to my sweetie and said “What if there was a fire overnight? He wouldn’t be able to get out!”

What does this say about me?

Posted by vanessa on February 9th, 2007 .
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I Do Not Want To Be The Leader…

Thanks to Lizzietush for reminding me where this quote comes from. I think it says everything perfectly - but then Anaïs always did…

“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding. http://www.anaisnin.com/home.html

Amen.

Posted by vanessa on October 5th, 2006 .
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New Podcast - VanessaCast5

This one is with Guy - a lovely man, and an excellent dom. Because of that, Guy does most of the talking, but he had me whipped into an absolute frenzy in no time at all. It was definitely the most intense sexual encounter, recorded or otherwise, that I have had in a very long time. Guy is demanding, but tender and warm when I am a good girl. And I was a very good girl.

At over 28 minutes, this episode is longer than previous podcasts, with a few lovely valleys between really intense crescendos. I hope the less patient of you will give it a chance and listen past the first couple of orgasms…they just kept getting more intense.

Bon Appetit!

icon for podpress  VanessaCast5 A little BDSM with Guy [28:26m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

Posted by vanessa on June 17th, 2006 .
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