The Perverts’ Saloon

Suzanne Portnoy (I told you about her book, The Butcher, The Baker, The Candlestick Maker) is hosting the 1st London Perverts’ Saloon Tea Party next weekend. Suzanne was kind enough to invite me and I’m looking forward to meeting my fellow sex bloggers and perverts-in-arms.

So far, though, everyone who has RSVP’d is female. Strange, I would have thought that men would be more inclined than women to show up to a sex-themed party, but I guess I have much to learn about the world of sex writers/entertainers/workers.

I had promised Suzanne I would read an excerpt from her book as part of a podcast but she is much less of a procrastinator than I am and has since recorded her own narration, available on Audible. She does a fine job. Of course, she’s no Vanessa (hehe) but she has her own style.

Of course I’m going to tell you all about the party when I return. Hmmm…I wonder what a bunch of oversexed women will do on a Sunday afternoon? I’m sure we’ll think of something…

Posted by vanessa on April 13th, 2007 .
Filed under: Sexy Stuff, Random stuff | 1 Comment »

Why Does She Do It?


I finally had the time to catch up on some blogs that I like to read, and this particular post by O about female sex bloggers is worth noting because it really made me stop and think about why I do what I do. Why I pour out my soul and sexual secrets to the world. Why I have random phone sex…and record it. Why I remain anonymous (except to a very short list of - I hope - trusted friends).

The anonymous part is easy. You already know me. I am the woman in line at the market, at the office party, in the minivan at the car wash. I am your sister, your daughter, your co-worker, your lover, your friend. If you knew it was me writing this, would you see me differently? Would my husband be judged if his boss or clients knew? Would my mother be publicly humiliated? Would my children (if I had them) be dis-invited from play dates and parties? I can take a risk individually, but I cannot extend the risk to the people I love. So, I hide behind the anonymity of cyberspace.

The why is more difficult to answer. More »

Posted by vanessa on August 26th, 2006 .
Filed under: Stuff On My Mind | 6 Comments »

New Podcast - VanessaCast5

This one is with Guy - a lovely man, and an excellent dom. Because of that, Guy does most of the talking, but he had me whipped into an absolute frenzy in no time at all. It was definitely the most intense sexual encounter, recorded or otherwise, that I have had in a very long time. Guy is demanding, but tender and warm when I am a good girl. And I was a very good girl.

At over 28 minutes, this episode is longer than previous podcasts, with a few lovely valleys between really intense crescendos. I hope the less patient of you will give it a chance and listen past the first couple of orgasms…they just kept getting more intense.

Bon Appetit!

icon for podpress  VanessaCast5 A little BDSM with Guy [28:26m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

Posted by vanessa on June 17th, 2006 .
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New Podcast - VanessaCast4

Thanks to all of you for your patience while I work through the maze of sound editing. Hope you like this one!

icon for podpress  Charlie [10:33m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

Posted by vanessa on June 5th, 2006 .
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New Podcast Available - VanessaCast3

Thanks to all of you for your patience while I learn this whole sound editing thing. Here’s a little something that I hope will keep you happy until I learn how to make these a bit more polished. I am totally new to all this, so please forgive the quality! This is a recording I made while I was just enjoying myself–not talking to anyone or thinking about anything but my own pleasure. If you listen closely you can hear my vibrator in some parts, and you can also hear some of the waterworks! Hope you enjoy it!

icon for podpress  VanessaCast3 - Just me and my vibrator [15:56m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

Posted by vanessa on May 10th, 2006 .
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New Podcast Available!

Dave let me record our session together. Thanks, Dave!

icon for podpress  VanessaCast2 - Dave [4:23m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

Posted by vanessa on April 29th, 2006 .
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My First Podcast Is Ready!

With thanks and sloppy kisses to Andrew, my first podcast is done and available for download!

Check it out and let me know what you think…

icon for podpress  VanessaCast1 - Andrew [8:34m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

Posted by vanessa on April 23rd, 2006 .
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About Vanessa...

Vanessa is a genus of butterflies. Common names are American Lady (Vanessa virginiensis), West Coast Lady (Vanessa annabella) and Painted Lady (Vanessa cardui).

I'm Vanessa. I'm always a Lady. Talk to me....

vanessa@talktovanessa.com

...and then YOU said...

  • Curvaceous Dee: Being happy is a hell of a lot more important than writing to keep us happy. I am so pleased for you!...
  • Pog: Hey Vanessa, Your husband is a very lucky man indeed. Take care, Pog.
  • havingmycake: Very worrying time for you both. Hope there is a good outcome.
  • Curvaceous Dee: *applauds* Oh, I am so pleased! It’s such a rare and special thing, and you well deserve it....
  • lapis ruber: That sounds a really nasty event. Glad you weren’t more seriously injured. Happy belated HNT.