Sugasm #95

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #96? Use the contact form. This Week’s Picks Cuffed “She could see that he had something concealed in his other hand, but couldn’t quite tell whether it would be an […]

The Swinging Politics

Things over the last month have been very exciting. I blame the retrograde Mercury for it, but Mr. Vanessa has no faith in my astrology. See, Mr. Vanessa encouraged me earlier rather than later to satisfy my fantasies. More than just promoting. Arrangement actively. Even by pushing. I’ve been titillated, yes. Excited, of course. That […]


Real intimacy. I had never experienced actual intimacy before now. The kind that makes you feel as though your souls are embracing. OK, it sounds soppy and starry-eyed. But for someone with a history of boundary and trust issues, letting go to experience true intimacy is damn near earth-shattering. True intimacy. I had no idea […]

Fear and Loathing: My male entitlement and sexual harassment experience

WARNING: THIS POST MAY CONTAIN TRIGGERING MATERIAL The upcoming post by my excellent friend Epiphora made me begin to think about my own previous masculine entitlement experiences.  I never believed I had run into any harassment from males before reading her post and was quite grateful for it, but after reading, I realized that I […]

Close2You Sinfonia Review

Close2You is a fresh German brand based on music stuff many of its models and names.  And frankly, they seem to have quality toys if you can get past the really absurd title. I chose the Sinfonia, which is sold as a g-spot vibrator, but likely the most odd-looking g-spot vibrator I’ve ever seen.  So […]

Better Than Chocolate Review

I had mixed emotions when EdenFantasys gave me the chance to check the Better Than Chocolate.  I read some really fantastic BTC reviews and then some reviews that said the BTC lacked little authority.  Nevertheless, I decided to try it for myself at least and see what the fuss is about, so I accepted the […]

Intimate Organics Cocoa Bean & Goji Berry Aromatherapy Massage Oil Review

Intimate Organics is a business with which I had a love-hate relationship even before I tried any of its products.  I enjoyed the fact that they have unique scents–like cocoa bean & goji berry instead of standard vanilla or cinnamon–but hated the fact that when the only natural components in their goods are vital oils, […]

Naughty Boy – Review

Just after my boyfriend stated that he enjoyed the impression of using my LELO Mia around his asshole, I instructed the Naughty Boy almost on a whim.  I thought, “This is my opportunity!”He said he was open to the idea, but he wanted to make sure it wasn’t too large what we received.  Enter the […]

Fantasy = Rape? I don’t believe that.

By the time I write this, I realize it’s probably going to have been discussed in the blogosphere to a great extent, but I want to give my opinion.  For those of you who haven’t heard, a Manchester judge, England rejected charges of rape after finding a group sex fantasy for the lady who claimed […]

Vixen Creations Astrovibe Review

One idea went through my mind the first time I saw Vixen’s Astrovibe–”Giant lime green dildo. DO WANT. “I really wanted to ask for review at the time, but I had another assignment by the time it came out, so I couldn’t get it. I totally had to have it after the reviewers who had […]

Tantus Ripple Small Review

When I saw the little Tantus Ripple on Naughty and Discreet was a free week item, I realized I had to have it.  I’m more advanced in anal play and I don’t like thrusting either, but my boyfriend’s got quite a reluctant ass, so I needed the smallest thing I could get that wasn’t the […]

Tantus Goddess Review

It was a difficult decision to pick a toy for my first review for  There’s so much nice out there.  But I decided to remain tried and true to something–Tantus silicone.  I ended up receiving a review of the Tantus Goddess and I’m not going to be disappointed. Then you’re missing out for those […]